Fear of Flying/Travel Anxiety

fear of flying, travel anxiety, Paul Borish, MA, therapist, executive travel coach

I prefer to refer to what I treat as “TRAVEL ANXIETY” until a thorough assessment and diagnosis narrows down to the specific problem(s). Words matter. As a seasoned Mental Health Professional, I have seen people carry incorrect diagnoses for years. The main problem this causes, other than the ethical concerns, is that the most effective treatment for any specific phobia or anxiety disorder is not effective when applied to other disorders.

“The Most Effective Treatment For Any One Specific Travel Phobia or Anxiety Is Not Effective When Applied to Another Disorder”

For example, I had an individual ask about EMDR, a therapy specific to treating traumatic memories, because a friend told them it worked for them. The problem was, the friend was treated with EMDR due to recurring nightmares from witnessing a horrific car crash that killed children, while my client had a fear of heights.

You wouldn’t tolerate a heart surgeon scheduling surgery based on a report from a different doctor

You wouldn’t ask for a specific antibiotic because your neighbor takes it

fear of travel, fear of flying, travel anxiety, hodophobia, agoraphobia, claustrophobia, paul borish, therapist, counselor, male therapist

When you work with me, I dedicate myself to your care. We will have an extensive interview, in person, by phone, or secure video. I will take the time to diagnose your situation properly, discuss it with you, and make sure we’re on the same page. Then we’ll develop a treatment plan to meet your specific needs. In my office, your home or your office, anywhere in the world.

“The Problem Isn’t That You Failed Treatment, It’s That Mismatched Treatment Failed You”

I HAVE FEAR OF FLYING. DON'T I?

In Nearly Every Group “Fear of Flying” Course Given, Some Individuals Drop Out Prior to the Graduation Fight

READ MORE ABOUT PHOBIAS

True Aviophobia, or Fear of Flying is characterized by intense fear of, or strong avoidance of flying or airplanes in general.  If you have aviophobia and  do have to fly, you probably have an intense sense of fear, anxiety, and/or dread.  You will experience this fear every, or nearly every time you are required to fly.  If you experience this fear in a narrow body plane, like a single aisle 737, but not in a larger two aisle plane such as a 787; you probably do not have true aviophobia (see claustrophobia). The intensity of your fear or panic may vary situationally:

  • More intense taking a transatlantic flight than a brief one hour one  Y
  • You have to fly without friends or family

Or environmentally:

  • Your usually high level of anxiety increases to panic in turbulence
  • Flying in bad weather causes far greater panic

Everyone experiences fear or panic differently, and fear/panic also manifest differently for both the elderly and children.

Claustrophobia is defined as a fear of enclosed, or small, tight spaces.  You might  have an unreasonable fear of

  • Elevators
  • MRI machines
  • Caves
  • Small rooms
  • Tight fitting clothing, such as neckties
  • Airplanes, particularly smaller, tighter planes like regional jets and propeller planes; or even smaller aircraft like a Learjet or Cessna Caravan.

In these situations, you may experience:

  • Extreme sweating
  • Tightness in the chest
  • Dizziness
  • Nausea
  • Numbness
  • Rapid heart rate

Your fear is irrationally out of proportion to the situation itself.  You probably recognize the fear is irrational. Claustrophobia can develop if you have an adverse event in a small space, such as:

  • Being trapped in an elevator in the dark
  • Getting lost in a cave
  • Through experiencing some other type of trauma in a setting from which they feel trapped

Sometimes, you can experience a panic attack for no discernible reason. Brain wiring can “misfire” for no particular reason, and should this happen in the brains “panic center” and you happened to be in an enclosed space; like a small, hot stuffy room, you will likely feel an urgent need to leave that space.  Since panic attacks generally subside within 15 minutes or so, you would be likely to associate your panic attack with the enclosed space, even though they may be coincidental.

Fear of Heights is characterized by irrational anxiety in high places, such as tall buildings, being on a ladder, driving over bridges, being up in the air, being near cliffs, walking on hills or mountains.  You would be unlikely to enjoy amusement parks, and possibly get dizzy driving or riding over high bridges.  Fear of heights can cause all types of impairment, such as becoming terrified looking out an airplane window, or feeling dizzy being near the balcony of a hotel room on a high floor; or the balcony of a cruise ship.

Agoraphobia is one of the most misunderstood phobias.  By definition, it overlaps with all specific phobias.  The agoraphobic has marked fear of anxiety in the following general domains:

  • Transportation; such as planes, trains, automobiles, buses, ships
  • Open spaces; parking lots, stadiums, bridges, large open or enclosed markets
  • Enclosed Spaces; airplanes, elevators, stores, movie theaters
  • Being in crowds or lines
  • Being out of the home; or, “safe space” alone

Having agoraphobia, you will frequently experience the panic in two or more of these general categories.  What distinguishes a diagnosis of agoraphobia from the phobic situations themselves is that you fear that you will be trapped or unable to obtain help if you experience panic, embarrassment, or incapacitation. For example, if you fear “freaking out” on a plane in front of friends, family, co-workers, or just the other passengers as opposed to a fear of the plane crashing (aviophobia) you would likely be a candidate for the diagnosis of agoraphobia.  As with other phobias, the fear must be irrationally out of proportion to the situation. Agoraphobia leads the individual to avoid situations.  When it is complex, involving fears in multiple situations, it can lead you to increasing isolation, sometimes even rendering you home-bound. Agoraphobia is extremely difficult to self-diagnose, it’s treatment differs greatly from the treatment for Fear of Flying, and should be considered if you have failed at traditional “Fear of Flying” therapy, books, DVD’s, classes, etc.

There are numerous other phobias that can cause an individual to avoid travelA partial list includes:

  • Social Anxiety
  • Emetophobia Fear of Vomiting in Public)
  • Astraphobia: Fear of Lightning/Thunder
  • Avi-ophidiophobia: Fear of Snakes on a Plane

While every individual is different, phobias generally develop if you:

  • Experience a traumatic event, such as being in an airplane that experiences a mechanical failure or crash
  • Witness others who are experiencing a traumatic event, such as seeing a plane crash, seeing someone drown or being killed in a fire, be attacked by a dog, etc.
  • Are exposed by informational means, such as repetitive watching of videos on TV or YouTube of plane crashes; or hearing or reading about tragic events
  • Experience a panic attack in the now feared situation or object, such as having a panic attack while flying.  This can occur after having successfully taken many flights.

WHAT IS "GENERALIZED TRAVEL ANXIETY?"

Many people have what I refer to as “Generalized Travel Anxiety.” This refers to people who don’t like flying, think it’s not worth the hassle, but also miss out on:

  • Family vacations
  • Seeing, or even meeting grandchildren or new relatives
  • Optimum medical care in another city
  • Job opportunities

If you have generalized travel anxiety, you probably:

  • Make excuses for why you don’t fly
  • Prevent your family from vacations to exotic or foreign locations

HOW IS TREATMENT WITH ME DIFFERENT?

I specialize in the diagnosis and treatment of travel related phobias.  With over 15 years of experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor, I have the experience, specialized training and skills to differentiate between specific phobias, generalized anxiety, panic disorder, PTSD, depressive disorder, and many others.  I have learned through experience to integrate multiple treatment techniques to address your specific issues. Additionally, I have flown an average of at least 50,000 miles a year for the past several years.  Mostly just for fun.  I know travel.  I’ve flown in nearly every commercial airplane currently in use.  I’ve been to six continents.  This past summer, I flew halfway around the world and back, mainly to enjoy flying in planes and on airlines I haven’t experienced before. What that means to you is that not only do I have the clinical skills to treat your specific disorder, I can show you how to make your new found ability to travel fun. I can show you how to:

  • Pick the right flights
  • The right seats
  • Even what airports to fly into/out of to help make your travel nearly stress free

I’ll teach you how to:

  • Pack to make airport security hassle-free,
  • How to enjoy layovers
  • How to engage the flight crew to enlist their help in making your flying low-stress and even fun

You’ll Learn All the “Pro Tricks” to Navigate Airports, Connecting Flights, Lounges, and Accommodations

I’ll teach you exactly what to do if:

  • Your flight is late
  • You miss a connection
  • You accidentally try to carry the wrong items through security

I’ll show you how to fit in and travel like a road warrior, even if you haven’t flown in years.  Yes, I can even teach you how to pack into a single carry-on; whether you’re flying 100 miles for a weekend, or across the world for two weeks.

You Will Have Confidence in Your Ability to Manage Any Problem, Anywhere in The World

I’ve encountered countless anxious travelers in airports, on planes, in hotels, and on tours.  If a stranger has walked up to you at an airport or on a plane when you were panicking, and helped you through it, it may likely have been me.

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